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It Ends With Us Book Review

Written by:

The Candid Bibliophile

Published on:

June 13, 2024

Updated on:

August 20, 2024

Why you can trust my review of It Ends With Us

While preferences in books are widely subjective, I tried to come up with a methodology for rating romance books that focuses on the elements of the genre. My rating and review are based on how well It Ends With Us incorporates all of those elements. While I can't promise complete objectivity, you can trust that my rating and review are not completely biased.

Summary of It Ends With Us

It Ends With Us is a beautifully complex story about falling in love with someone who turns out to be different than you thought. Lily and Ryle meet under vulnerable circumstances. They both had a bad day and were looking for a private place to sort through their emotions. This encounter foreshadowed so much that’s revealed throughout the book.


Their chemistry was palpable from the beginning and their romance felt inevitable (even though Ryle had a “no dating” rule). As their romance became more passionate, Lily couldn’t help but think about her first love, Atlas. While she felt the same spark with Ryle that she felt with Atlas, she kept thinking about how safe Atlas made her feel. In the middle of living in the present and revisiting her past through her childhood journals, she unexpectedly runs into Atlas. This reconnection threatens her relationship with Ryle, but it could be for the best.

Who should read this book?

I think romance lovers and haters should read It Ends With Us. I feel like it might surprise some of the haters of this genre. However, anyone who is triggered by depictions of domestic violence or attempted sexual assault should either pass on this book or read with caution.

My take of It Ends With Us

I was blown away by this book! Clearly my expectations were pretty low, but I was proven that you can’t judge a book by its cover. This didn’t read like a typical romance to me. It had depth and incited perplexing emotions.


Lily, the protagonist, was strong-willed yet pliable. She had convictions that she stood by firmly and convictions that wavered with love. This was relatable; she was human.


Ryle, the hero or the antagonist (?), was magnetic and intense. I spent about half the book being charmed by him and the rest of the book being disgusted with him. I don’t want to spoil the book for anyone, but hindsight is 20/20 and he is the epitome of “show me your true colors and I’ll believe you.” This is why I struggle to consider him the hero of this book.


Atlas, quite possibly the true hero of this book, was Lily’s first love. Where Ryle was loud, Atlas was quiet. Where Ryle was arrogant, Atlas was humble. He respected Lily and wanted to protect her despite her choice to continue seeing Ryle.


I found the story itself to be so beautifully complicated. I caught myself having incongruous emotions throughout the book; much like I imagine Lily was feeling. The conflict in Lily and Ryle’s relationship was blindsiding and very realistic for many people.


“It’s easy when we’re on the outside to believe that we would walk away without a second thought if a person mistreated us. It’s easy to say we couldn’t continue to love someone who mistreats us when we aren’t the ones feeling the love of that person.”
— Lily


The ending was so bittersweet. While it felt appropriate given Lily’s journey, it wasn’t the ending I would wish for anyone. The sweetness was in the glimmer of possibility of better days ahead for her.


Overall, I loved this book. Once I picked it up, it was hard for me to put it down. I’m even more excited to see how they adapt this story for the big screen after reading this book.

Who should read this book?

I think romance lovers and haters should read It Ends With Us. I feel like it might surprise some of the haters of this genre. However, anyone who is triggered by depictions of domestic violence or attempted sexual assault should either pass on this book or read with caution.

It Ends With Us

Author:

Colleen Hoover

Publisher:

Simon & Schuster

My rating:

5

Content warning:

Depicts scenes of domestic violence and attempted sexual assault.

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